We are all one; there are no sides to take. The wise project manger goes along with what is happening anyway, for this is the way of the project manager. Lao Tzu tells us: After a bitter quarrel, some resentment must remain. What can one do about it? Therefore the sage keeps half of the bargain But does not exact his due. A man of virtue performs his part, But a man without virtue requires others to fulfil their obligations. The Tao of heaven is impartial. It stays with good men all the time.